Hey, I'm Allie

 I'm a loss mom, an advocate, a hairdresser, and a loudmouth. I'm married to Drew, and a mom to three beautiful babies. 

Our son Henry (Hank) was stillborn at 32 weeks. We love him deeply and miss him greatly. I have dedicated my life to serving the loss parent community and ending preventable stillbirth in his honor.

​In August 2021 we met Hank's little sister Octavia, our first living child. She brings us so much joy and a painful reminder of what Henry will never have. Our family was completed in March of 2023 when Hank's youngest sibling Max was born living. 

​I really hope that visiting this site will bring a smile to your face. I want to make the world a happier place, even if it means talking about some really sad stuff. My hope is that you will find joy in the thoughts and experiences I am honored to share with you.